Have you ever found yourself in a funk? You love your work, you’ve got a great team, you’re even making progress – but you’re just in a funk.
Sound familiar?
What about when someone asks you how you’re doing? Have you ever answered honestly? Are we really “great” or “fine” all the time?
For years, I’ve noticed that I periodically struggle with getting motivated and staying motivated.
We don’t like to admit it, but these low times are occasionally accompanied by mild depression and frustrations. Many associate these times with weakness – convincing themselves, I’m not a good leader or I’m in over my head.
Obviously, a depressive state is not healthy. And if we are not healthy, we simply cannot live and lead effectively. We cannot respond to challenges and opportunities calmly and decisively.
In 2011, I began journaling when these low times occurred. I was looking for patterns – anything that would help me know when they were coming, prepare for them, prevent them, and use them as opportunities to grow.
I even tried to fix the problem using various methods including diet and exercise. You can read my post about how I lost 30 pounds in the process. There was no one thing that worked.
For more than 20 years, Bill Hybels has talked about 4 gauges to assess health in life and work. So I began to review the gauges periodically and what I learned has been life-changing for me.
To help me review the 4 gauges, I developed a guide and template which includes specific questions and action items which can be completed in just a few minutes. In fact, we’ve modified the guide and template for all types of leaders – in sports, corporate settings, nonprofit leaders, healthcare, government, education, and more.
I’ll give you my template in just a minute, but first, let me tell you about the 4 gauges…
1. Physical
A healthy diet, rest, and regular exercise are key components to physical health. When I neglect these areas, I do not have the energy required to live and lead effectively. So I work out at least 3 days a week, get at least 7 hours of sleep each night, and maintain a healthy diet.
I’ve also learned that if I push my body too hard, I will experience a physical breakdown or psychosomatic complications associated with high stress.
Download the Guide & Template for questions and action items to evaluate your Physical Gauge health.
2. Mental
It’s easy to get stuck in a rut – doing the same things and thinking the same way. Occasionally, we do this while expecting different results. To mentally prepare for the day, effective leaders continually test their thinking, opinions, and conclusions.
Download the Guide & Template for questions and action items to evaluate your Mental Gauge health.
3. Spiritual
The pace of my work has dramatically increased over the past few years. Since my spiritual gauge is important to me, I regularly check my life’s dashboard. And I can tell when I am spiritually empty, half full, three-quarters full, or, occasionally, full.
If the Spiritual Gauge isn’t your style, you may want to spend time reflecting and meditating.
For me to keep my faith gauge where I want it to be, I have committed myself to solitude, study, and attending church regularly. I discovered that these spiritual disciplines clarify life’s challenges and provide intensity and passion for my life and work.
4. Emotional
Our problems often signal a state of emotional emptiness. When the crisis hits we become more reactionary, testy, and short with people. We see people as interruptions to our “real work”.
You know there’s a problem when you’re on your way home from work and you consciously hope that your spouse has everything under control and the kids don’t need much from you. You simply don’t have any more to give to the most valued people in your life.
Download the Guide & Template to evaluate your Emotional Gauge health.
The one discipline that has helped me to control my emotional gauge is finding an outlet – a recreational activity that takes my mind away from the pressures of work. Running and writing have become recreational hobbies for me – one of the three reasons I started this blog. You’ll have to intentionally schedule time into your calendar for unwinding otherwise life happens and crowds out emotional health.
Here’s what is interesting – the emotional gauge is the only gauge you can’t directly control. The emotional gauge is a byproduct of the health of the other three gauges. Trouble in one or more of the other three gauges, directly effects the emotional gauge.
The gauges need to be measured objectively, not subjectively. How you FEEL about how you are doing does not matter nearly as much as how you’re REALLY doing. So, using the questions provides measurable outcomes to evaluate each gauge.
I have made a conscious decision to live healthy, so I have more to offer than a handful of years of frenzied activity.
So click here to download the Guide & Template to see how you’re doing.
Question: Have you ever been in a funk? How do you deal with it? Shoot me an email or share your experience in the comments below.
Eva P. Scott says
Luke 2:52:
This is the four areas that Jesus grew in: “And Jesus grew in wisdom (mental) and stature (health), and in favor with God (spiritual) and man (social).”
The social part fits the family, friends, etc. People who isolate themselves have more problems with being depressed. The words in parentheses are added by me. I’ve heard this is a well-rounded person. This idea is not original with me, nor the explanation.
Michael Nichols says
Interesting observation Eva. Thanks for connecting!
doughibbard says
I am currently in a funk…and I am dealing with it by revisiting motivations and goals.
Michael Nichols says
That’s great, Doug. Keep evaluating and moving forward. Let me know how I can help.
Johnrsylliboy says
John R
Are you First Nations/Aboriginal? Your assessment and evaluative tool is definitely so. An Elder taught me a similar one ….FAB!
Michael Nichols says
Thanks John. Glad it was helpful.
Jen McGahan says
Hi there, Michael! As a woman, mom, solopreneur (you know, all that girl stuff); I find it interesting that there is nothing here that addresses family, finance, friends and fun, which are in my mind pretty critical life gauges. (The other three “F”s would be “fitness, faith, and education” — I know; don’t say it.) When I’m in a funk, I make daily lists of the top 5 things I need to accomplish tomorrow, I pray to God to carry me through the funk, and I drink lots of water and try to make jokes. Hard, sweaty workouts are non-negotiable, as they keep me from being downright nasty.
May I have your permission to tell you, you are blessed. This made me smile: “You know there’s a problem when you’re on your way home from work and you consciously hope that your spouse has everything under control and the kids don’t need much from you.” …Lovely post.
Michael Nichols says
Family, finances, friends, and fun are byproducts of health in the 4 gauges. If I’m healthy at my core, then I am better able to be effective in those areas.
The tool that I use to specifically assess family, finances, friends, and fun is my life plan. I review it weekly. I’ve written about it here – http://www.michaelnichols.org/your-life-matters.
Rodneyagan says
Great stuff Mike
Michael Nichols says
Thanks my friend. Enjoy your weekend.
Niki (DeWeese) Leiva says
This is a wonderful post, Michael. Regularly checking in with myself has significantly helped me focus on the moments over the last year. What I like about your post is that it categorizes every aspect of life, making the checking-in a little less overwhelming. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us.
Michael Nichols says
I’ve found the same to be true for me. Thanks Niki!